23

I see you, Graham.

I see you now. I see where you are going. And I see where you have been. And I really can’t believe that I get to witness a life this special.

Your road hasn’t been simple. Life handed you some challenge from day one. But you continue to overcome it all with grace and courage. It never ceases to amaze me how strong you are.

Twenty-three is different. Lifes challenges begin to get bigger. They seem to take over sometimes. Like they have the wheel.

But as I see it, 23 is the start of something new. Twenty three is the beginning if you settling into your skin. It’s the start of you knowing who you are and why you are here. Maybe the specifics are still blurry, but the idea is there. The feeling of who you are - your spirit - you have it now. Follow it. Trust it. It’s been with you since the start. I saw it in your magical little eyes that steamy August day 23 years ago.

You are strong and capable. You are handsome and brilliant. You are empathetic and thoughtful. And mostly, now you are in charge of you. Your inner compass will guide you. I promise. Your compass has helped guide me a time or 2. It’s a magical thing.

So…go be who you were meant for. The world needs it so desperately. Spread those wings. I will always be here, holding down the nest for you.

Happy 23 years, Graham. I can’t wait to see what life has waiting for you.